.But what Astrid doesn't notice yet is actually a reality that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- that possesses pair of kids-- may vouch for: The truth that your relationship with your moms and dads modifications and advances as you each get older, and also with any luck right. "Your world facilities around [your children] when they are actually children [and] it is actually a lot job however lovely," O'Hara mentions. "Eventually, you actually skip that, considering that after that you can't get all of them to perform just about anything you prefer them to do, since they begin creating their very own thoughts, their personal opinions." And inevitably, you end up in the place O'Hara, whose sons reside in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself today, able to learn from her children. "They are actually just such awesome youthful men," she mentions. "I'm not their pal, however I love having talks with them and understanding just how they deal with lifestyle.".